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I guess I should start by saying I like researching and if any of the information I mention below is incorrect please correct me. Please give an applicable, logical rebuttal. Most of what you read will be pure thought, my mind sometimes doesn't know where it's going. Some people call this scatter brained, I just call it, spontaneous thought. After some quick research online...blogger, is a free blog site but you don't own your blog. Keep that in mind when starting a blog. If you don't own your blog you can't take your followers with you if you move to a different site. So like the name of my blog states, my part time life 30. I turned 30 this year. People say you figure out what you want in your 30s, they can be the best years of your life. So far I am super skeptical, at least from a dating stand point. I've had 3 encounters with men since by birthday, the first I dated for about 2 months(started a month before my birthday), he wasn't interested in me enough to be my boyfriend. The second just wanted one thing, needless to say he is not helping the nice guy image that the male population wants to give off. And the third I met this past Saturday, really nice, handsome, smart, and after dealing with the two before I was so excited someone like him could like me, this totally blinded me. A few hours into meeting him, my friend Eva mentions, "I think he has a ring on, as in I think he's married." And this brings me to my first lesson as a 30 year old. #1 Rule: When meeting a man, Check for a wedding ring. I've heard this before, which made me feel more like a fool. But the guy was all over me like white on rice. I was just so excited to actually be attracted to someone, which doesn't happen to often, the 2 previous guys, asked me out, but I wasn't that attracted to them. So apparently I am attracted to the unavailable. So what did I do when I found out he was married, and men are the scum of the world, sometimes. I ran to the one guy I met earlier, that let me know he has a girlfriend, I said "I'm not hitting on you, but I'm going to hang out with you because, the guy that was all over me, I just found out he is married, and I just need to put my mind at ease that there are still good guys out there, meaning you. Thank you!" He was great he even seem more comfortable around me after that. My friend Tya told me I don't know when a guy is hitting on me. And she said I have no clue as to when I am flirting. I just try to be nice to people, male or female. When I'm attracted to someone, I can sometimes tell if they are attracted to me, well I can at least tell we seem to be getting on well. Anyway, my past 3 encounters with guys since I've been 30 haven't been that great. But I guess the #1 rule of check for a wedding ring, should be ingrained in my mind, at least I hope so! :) Besides being interested in finding a handsome, smart, nice guy to date, and possibly become my boyfriend. I love movies. I've been to the theater twice in the past 2 weeks. I've seen: We Are the Millers--I'd give it four out of five stars. I hadn't seen a preview for it so I was pleasantly surprised that I had picked a good one. Very funny, with an excellent ending. :) Despicable Me 2--For a children's movie I'd give it four out of 5 stars. I own the first movie and did not expect the second movie to be as enjoyable. Boy was I wrong, my favorite characters where back, with some new additions. I've even decided to try and convince my friends to dress up like Minions for Halloween this year, it might be our last group Halloween before some of them start trying to have babies. Gezz listen to me, my friends having babies and I can't even find a guy worth dating. Priorities are definitely scattered. I'm also still on my 6th month waiting room to the rest of my life. Let me explain, I got a new job in May, they put me on a trial period till the end of October, 6 months. Then they decide if they are going to keep me and hopefully either going to give me a raise or health insurance. Hopefully both, fingers crossed! :) An music, My new favorite song: "Brave" by Sara Bareilles Sara Bareilles is brilliant and has a beautiful voice! She is good person to follow for any aspiring vocalists. Well I think that's all I have for now....until next time.